The Marriage Destroyer

There is an evil spirit going about destroying marriages. There is so much betrayal, much cheating, much mistrust and much pretense. Obviously, there is less or no God in the picture. And there is so much sex that is not attributed to the bed being holy. many people may not know that sex was created by God for the pleasure of His people, a man, the husband, and a woman, the wife.

"The husband should fulfill his marital duty to his wife, and likewise the wife to her husband.
The wife does not have authority over her own body, but the husband does; and likewise also the husband does not have authority over his own body, but the wife does." 1 Corinthians 7:3-4  

 Your body belongs to your wife, your body belongs to your husband. I the context of love.  You should love your wife or husband as your own body. Sex has been so manipulated by Satan, the Devil, the Evil one,that sexual orgies have risen. Unholy sex is for self gratification. "What can I get from you?" not "What can I give you?" so marriage based on sex and self gratification cannot last long.

Many men watch pornographic movies that show many positions of sex with one or more that one man or woman, then turn around to their women and demand them to do it to them like they saw it! Some of these positions are not meant for people but animals! So if you want sex like animals do it, why get a human being in form of a woman! Pornographic sex is not real sex in the context of a holy marriage. Pornographic sex are mostly ungodly sexual acts. These are done in the context of making money. In the context of no soul connection. In the context of no intimacy. In the context of lust. Sex done as a self selfish gratification act has no soul connection. "And the two shall become one." Sex done as a self /selfish act has no intimacy. Intimacy grows. Soul connection grows. Oneness grows.

 "For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and they will become one flesh." Genesis 2:24
"...and the two will become one flesh.' So they are no longer two, but one flesh." mark 10:8
"For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and shall be joined unto his wife, and they two shall be one flesh." Ephesians 1:3

The media has also not helped. there are many soap operas that heighten these betrayals, cheating, ...On the other hand, these movies/films are a reflection of the society we live in.